Sunday, April 4, 2010

so over.

i learned that it is truly possible to sincerely, completely get over an ex.

i just saw some pictures of my ex with his current girlfriend. every image spells L-O-V-E, CHEESE. hehe! :) i found myself saying, "aaaww, how cute. they look so happy together!" that is without having to convince myself that they do look good as a couple. and then i realized, boy oh boy, it's really possible to absolutely, absolutely come to terms with the person whom you loved for so long and who soonafter (fortunately) broke your heart. by absolutely, i mean no ill feelings, no sadness, not even a hint of bitternass.

my ex and i, we've been good friends for about a year now. we resealed the friendship 5 years after the break up. it's all good. time heals all wounds, so they say. and it did. letting go, moving on, getting over, and finally realizing that you successfully did 'em all is nothing but liberating. :)

**to eks & his trulabs... all the best! KAMPAI! :)**

i am mamaru.
and i know that you'll get over
your heartbreak sh*t soon.


Niel Steve said...

i am glad. they say that hate is not the opposite of love. but, it is indifference. =)

so when people ask me when do you know you are over with an ex, id say if you feel indifferent to that person already. =)

when one's does not focus too much his or her attention to the desired partner, a realistic view of the ex-beloved good traits and flaws, no more euphoria, excitement, sleeplessness, mood swings related to the ex, and not more goal oriented behaviors together. then i say you have gotten over your ex. =)

b(" ,)d said...

thanks, niel! :) it's a nice feeling. :) kaya lang may bago na naman akong attachment issue... see latest post. haha!